Quick and dirty, since no one else is helping....
Bat+ to big solenoid post (put all the "other" terminals on this post too)
the remaining big solenoid post should ONLY have the cable that goes to the starter connected to it.
The small studs get one terminal each, not sure if polarity even matters. If it is set up as described above and still won't work, swap the two little terminals around. Now that I think about it, that coil may have a snubber, so polarity MAY matter.