I'm going to have to disagree on the use of Seafoam, but that's for a differnet thread. :)
I swapped the relays for the pump and ABS. Pump is still acting up and I still have ABS so that leaves the pump. Sometimes I can hear it whirring, sometimes not. Takes about 5-10 cycles turning the key off and on to get it to go.
I have a new pump on order and will swap it out when it comes in. Hopefully it survives long enough as it's a week out and I just filled the tank clear full.