thanks for the good words!
I got the bar and mount kit @ http://www.realtruck.com/
(I compared prices and shipping form various places, this joint seemed a tiny bit below avg price..some had a cheaper price on the bar, or mount kit, but the shipping on them was ridiculous!)
got the trailFX rails from http://www.truckaddons.com
for like $117 and shipping
and got the Hella 500s from Amazon.com of all places...$54 for the complete set NIB...as sold at local AutoSupply for $139 !
I think I may get the vent visors...I dont like being rained on in the windows:D