nm I'm an idiot it is working perfectly with the new actuator. Been so long since I've had power locks on both sides I forgot you have the hit the button twice to unlock both the driver and passenger side
One problem though I did lose the little metal half ring/washer that goes over the door lock that keeps the rod attached to it :( cant seem to find it in the door or shake it loose. So a trip to home depot or autozone is probably in order. Problem is I'm not sure what size ring it is.