Well I feel like an dumb *** :D I finally found it on the passenger side kick panel going into this black relay thing attached to the side.
I only found it after taking the bottom panel of my dash off (the part under the steering wheel). About to give up I think to myself you know maybe i should go through that wire bundle on the passenger side again. Somehow I missed it the first pass through.
Ah well not all is lost I figured out how my dimmer switch works while i was in there lol.