This is the best I've got when it comes to Bilstein...
If you ever need anything for the Sway A Ways though I can pretty much walk you through a complete rebuild of those shocks, as a matter of fact I just rebuilt my bypasses and have all four coilovers completely apart valving/rebuilding them.
The one thing I can answer though is yes, the shock oil is compatible. Its all basicly the same. I'm running King oil in my Saw shocks, and I'm pretty sure my front coilovers had Fox oil in them from the last rebuild (I didn't do it but it came out Red).