it only took 8 months....
so today i got a random phone call from my local 4wd shop. turns out when i said i wanted my super awesome sway bar end links warranted 8 months ago something was actually done about it. we argued with superlift about what is covered under warrantee and they insisted end links were not. so needless to say i am a little surprised that these showed up totally free of charge. so if anyone else (and i know your out there) has effed superlift end links harass them and you get free ones!
2006 FX4 level II, 5 spd manual, dana 44 sas on mud grapplers